Finding your soulmate is priceless. But do you have to use a paid site to find a real relationship? Does a monthly fee really weed out people who aren't taking the process seriously? This wasn't really an issue before , but the Tinder-led surge of second profiles and instant access to all single folks within 10 miles gave sites with tedious personality analyses and upscale subscriptions a run for their money - literally. According to and Consumer Reports , not really. This Consumer Reports survey found that free sites actually scored better than paid sites on this when it came to overall satisfaction because they're a "better value. There's no one dating site that everyone is particularly psyd about.